Law of attraction: example, in love, danger, what is it?

Definition: what is the law of attraction?

We attract what we think about. This is what the Law of Attraction provides, a belief that implies that our thoughts -whether positive or negative- influence our lives. “If I’m invited to a family party and I’m not thrilled by the prospect of seeing people or wasting time, I go there sulking. Nobody’s gonna want to talk to me and I’m gonna walk out of this family reunion thinking I was right.“explains Sylvie Lair, clinical psychologist, in order to explain how this law works.”On the other hand, if I apply the law of attraction and say that I am going to have a good time there, I will talk to people who will nurture me on an intellectual level. The way I’m going to approach the family reunion is going to be completely different.“ continues the psychologist. The 369 Method – well known to TikTok followers – is inspired by this Law. This manifestation technique developed by Youtuber Karin Yee consists of writing down a wish, 3 times in the morning, 6 times in the afternoon and 9 times in the evening and concentrating on it for 17 seconds each time, all during 33 to 45 days. Be careful though: the law of attraction is not a magical thought: “it’s not about crossing your fingers and closing your eyes to wake up in front of a Christmas tree“. It is therefore not an illumination, nor a prayer. For Sylvie Lair, it’s not about will either. “This is the intention that we ask” underlines the professional.

The law of attraction is not a wishful thinking.

Money, work, health… The Law of Attraction can be applied on a daily basis in different areas of life. When we wish for something, the main thing is to set intentions. And the first step is to clarify it. “We may want to make money but the real question is why“advises Sylvie Lair”If it is, for example, to go away for the weekend and live an experience, it is necessary to clearly express this intention and be in the expression of a desire. My body will then vibrate and multiply electromagnetic forces which will allow my heart, my thoughts and my emotions to manufacture a kind of chemistry to allow me to visualize myself in this weekend.“details the psychologist before adding”the second step will be to feel grateful for what I already have and which belongs to me like a roof over my head“. The idea is to create your own reality. Applying the law of attraction on a daily basis also requires patience.. “We must persist in what we want and be in action“explains the specialist. “If, for example, a patient is not happy at work, I ask him to describe the ideal service. If he answers me that he would like more complicity and mutual aid, I advise him to focus on what he could do so that there are these elements in his current situation and to visualize this service.“.

In love, intention and action are also the key! “If I want to be in a relationship and I stay within my four walls, the partner is not going to come and sit next to me. In contrast imagining that I have a companion will provide an emotion of well-being and enthusiasm“explains Sylvie Lair”The key is to express in the present and in the affirmative my desire to be together. To visualize that I live with him outings, a sexual life but also to thank the universe for allowing me to open my eyes“It’s also important to know each other, to know why we really want to be in a relationship and what we really want.”It can be to be supported, to vibrate and to share. It’s necessary look at 360° and go beyond superficial things such as “the handsome boy with the chocolate bars or the one with a wallet‘‘. You have to be ready to welcome the other who will not necessarily be the one I had fantasized “. Letting go matters as well as putting things into perspective if you don’t get what you want. “If we think positively, we put things into perspective by telling ourselves that if we don’t have the answer, it doesn’t matter. The important thing is to create your reality”.

What are the risks and dangers of the law of attraction?

In recent years, the law of attraction has made its way – especially on social networks – with prescribers of all kinds. “The risk can be sectarian with people likely to promise the Moon” warns Sylvie Lair. “You can come across charlatans who will sell the idea of ​​the Law of Attraction “without effort”.

What are the best Law of Attraction books?

For the psychologist, the book “Positive thinking 2.0, The law of attraction finally explained by Yves-Alexandre Thalmann is an essential work. “The author is a psychologist who works on positive psychology and who measures his words with neuroscience“ argues the professional.

Other works exist as The Law of Attraction – The Secret Keys to Getting What You Want of Esther and Jerry Hicks and The law of attraction: Instructions for use: towards happiness, success and success by Slavica Bogdanov released in 2018. 50 exercises to practice the law of attraction by Virgile Stanislas Martin offers tools to apply it on a daily basis, as does the Toobee autosuggestion tool. “From this application, it is possible to create sentences and program well-being breaks around gratitude and the joy of living, which echoes the Law of Attraction.“.

Thanks to Sylvie Lair, clinical psychologist.