What do our erotic dreams really mean?

The alarm clock rings, you emerge quietly and there, you wonder why you just dreamed of having sex with your boss. Some might be ashamed of it and wonder if there is real sexual desire behind it all. But whatever it is, don’t panic, you are not alone in doing this kind of thing. hot dreams.

According to a study FIFG for All in bed and Flash, more than 2 out of 3 French people have already tried it (69% including 78% of men and 76% of those under 35). And more precisely, 42% have already dreamed that they were making love with ” a friend, 27% with a colleague, 19% with a celebrity and 8% with a politician ». But what could all this possibly mean?

Sleep with your boss

Whether it’s your teacher, your boss, or any other supervisor, a sexual dream about someone with authority over you can indicate several things, depending on Lauri Loewenberg, specialist in the interpretation of dreams. Either you seek his approval or you wish to acquire one of his qualities. In any case, the sexual attraction towards this person is not automatic.

Sleep with your ex

It is common for people who are in a romantic relationship to dream of their current partner or a former partner. These dreams can be part of transforming a current relationship or just saying you miss your ex. But it can also mean that you have successfully moved on and are finally grieving.

Sleep with a stranger

Dreaming of sex with a stranger can simply be a sign of a healthy libido and one normal sexual arousal. So above all, if you feel guilty about your current partner, don’t worry, it does not (necessarily) indicate a desire to cheat.

Cheating on your partner

Although dreams about cheating are not necessarily a direct reflection of your waking life, they could correspond to feelings of jealousy or a lack of intimacy in your current relationship. In this case, it might be useful to discuss it with your partner.

Sleep with a celebrity

Generally, if you dream of having sex with a celebrity, there is something she has that you want. According to Lauri Loewenberg, ” if she’s a movie star, there’s probably a quality in the character she played that you desire “.

make love in public

Apparently it is quite common to dream of having sex in public. However, the place in which the scene takes place is important, according to Loewenberg. But the fact that it is in public means above all a need for recognition or a goal of “status”.

practicing BDSM

If you practice BDSM in your dream, it may indicate that you are too hard on yourself, according to Loewenberg. But it can also mean that you want to have more control in some area of ​​your life or that you want someone else to take control. And of course, it can also mean that you are simply intrigued by this possibility and want to try it out in real life.

Sleep with a friend

Finally, if you dream of having sex with a friend, it does not necessarily mean a deep sexual desire towards the person. Rather, it is an unconscious connection or closeness at some psychological or emotional level. So don’t panic, don’t question your beautiful friendly relationship for so little.